Today when I woke up from sleep, I got my minds thinking about the improvements of me. While doing normal chores before I fully set up to the office, I said to myself that I need an improvements on two issue which is; numbers and family. These two problems of mine might cause a bigger problems for me if I’m not train myself from now.
Why numbers?… I am well known bad when it comes to number. I remember when I was school kid I can’t remember multiplication table. At that time I really worried if I become the chosen one to present multiple of. Even Siti Sifir singing can’t make me remember any of that haha. Also worried to hear that I need to be good in numbers to become a programmer but that’s what make me weird since I can do programming just fine even I got this problem. Thank god for this gifted mind, Alhamdulillah. But I’m not worrying about I can’t remember those thing because the calculator always become my friends for that matter. It just numbers also means date and this is the problem. I can’t remember too much about date. So silly to say that I might remember your birthday this year but I could forget about it for the next year. One of my friends once have disappointed with me because I didn’t wish her birthday even she had mentioned it couple days before. Not just for birthday, a date is also about important date. So that is why I always keep asking for confirmation when it was a date and numbers.
When it comes to family, I think I’m doing worse at this. I have my siblings, my cousins, and my relatives here. An ‘s’ means that they were more than one but I did not have an ‘s’ for the word visit. That was really bad for me. The way of one person’s treated his relatives inspires me. I got to have plan to visit them more and tighten our family bond. Yeah, I will make it. InsyAllah.
Then this evening when I finishing all the task and get ready to leave the office, I got a Skype wave from my former classmate. We chat a little and it end up with his excuse to leave because he going to have some sports as his evening activity. Something to contrast about the chat is that, he said I have been silent for a long time. That is… the third problem which it makes three now. One day friend of mine IM’ed me asking why she doesn’t have a friend. I replied “How about your classmate?” and then she said that she never in touch with them anymore. Then I gave her an advice;
“Human is like a mankind in The Sims. They got a social meter in their personality tab. If you spoke to your friends, meter increase and if you never spoke to your friend and didn’t make friends, the meter will down and it cause personality disorder. That’s reflect us in real world. So keep in touch with your friends, contact them just to say hello is acceptable.”
The thing is… I need to take that advice to myself now…
Improve… Improve… Improve… good luck!
till next time 
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